1. What inspired you to write this book?
I've always been fascinated by the ways we separate ourselves from
one another. We divide ourselves through our beliefs, experiences, identities,
and the stories we tell about who we are. Yet beneath those differences, I
think there's something profoundly universal about being human.
Our Love Is the Cure grew out of my own experiences with
suffering, healing, and learning to see myself and others with greater
compassion.
I began writing poetry at twenty-three, during a period of
significant personal and spiritual transformation. Over time, I came to
recognize that love wasn't simply a feeling or something reserved for
particular relationships. It could be an entirely different way of experiencing
life.
This collection is an exploration of that possibility.
2. What exactly is it about and who is it written
for?
Our Love Is the Cure is a collection of 175 poems exploring
love, compassion, healing, spiritual awareness, and our shared humanity.
At its heart, the book is about moving beyond the illusion that
we're fundamentally separate from one another.
It's written for anyone who has struggled, questioned their place
in the world, experienced loss, or wondered whether there's something more to
life than the roles and identities we inhabit.
I don't think readers need to share my spiritual perspective to
find something meaningful in the poems. Love, fear, loneliness, hope, and the
desire for connection are experiences that belong to all of us.
3. What do you hope readers will get out of
reading your book?
More than anything, I hope they come away with a greater sense of
compassion, both for themselves and for the people around them.
We can be incredibly hard on ourselves. We carry our mistakes,
revisit our suffering, and sometimes forget that we're deserving of the same
kindness we extend to others.
I'd love for someone to read a poem and recognize something about
themselves that they hadn't previously been able to put into words.
I don't expect a book of poetry to solve someone's problems. But
if a few lines can help a person feel understood, less alone, or more open to
love, that's meaningful to me.
4. How did you decide on your book's title and
cover design?
The title came from the central idea behind the collection: that
love has the capacity to transform the way we relate to ourselves, one another,
and the world.
I wanted something simple and direct. Our Love Is the Cure isn't
intended to suggest that love magically eliminates every difficulty in life.
Rather, it's an invitation to consider how compassion and connection might
change the way we experience those difficulties.
The visual direction of the cover reflects that same philosophy. I
wanted the imagery to communicate connection, shared humanity, and the
dissolution of separation rather than rely exclusively on familiar spiritual
symbols.
For me, the title and artwork should feel like two expressions of
the same message.
5. What advice or words of wisdom do you have for
fellow writers – other than run!? Well, running isn't terrible advice either!
I'd encourage writers to stop worrying so much about whether their
work resembles what they think successful writing is supposed to look like.
There's an enormous amount of pressure to find the right audience,
follow the right formula, and present ourselves in a particular way.
But the most meaningful thing we bring to our writing is our own
perspective.
Write what matters to you. Be open to criticism. Keep learning.
And remember that publication and recognition are only parts of the experience,
not the entirety of it.
The act of creating something meaningful has value long before
anyone else discovers it.
6. What trends in the book world do you see —
and where do you think the book publishing industry is heading?
I think we're entering an interesting period in which publishing
is becoming increasingly accessible while discoverability is becoming
increasingly difficult.
Independent authors have opportunities that would have been nearly
unimaginable a few decades ago. We can publish our work, reach readers around
the world, and maintain creative control over our books.
But having the ability to publish doesn't necessarily mean having
the ability to be discovered.
I also think artificial intelligence will continue to change the
industry, particularly in how books are produced, marketed, and discovered.
That raises important questions about creativity, authenticity, and what
readers value.
My hope is that the industry continues to make room for individual
voices rather than becoming entirely driven by algorithms and commercial
expectations.
I think readers will always want to encounter something that feels
genuinely human.
7. Were there experiences in your personal life
or career that came in handy when writing this book?
Absolutely. I don't think I could separate my poetry from the
experiences that shaped me.
I've worked in bookstores, spent years interacting with people
from different walks of life, and experienced my own periods of suffering and
transformation.
I also work as a caregiver for my grandmother, which has deepened
my appreciation for patience, presence, and the importance of ordinary moments.
Caregiving reminds me that love isn't always something dramatic or
extraordinary.
Sometimes it's simply being there for another person, listening,
or helping them through a difficult moment.
Those experiences continually influence the way I understand
compassion, and compassion is central to this book.
8. How would you describe your writing style?
Which writers or books is your writing similar to?
I'd describe my writing as contemplative, accessible, and
emotionally direct.
I don't generally approach poetry with the intention of creating
something technically elaborate. I'm much more interested in whether a poem
communicates something meaningful.
My work often explores spiritual questions, personal
transformation, and the relationship between our inner lives and the world
around us.
Ram Dass, Alan Watts, and Paul Selig have been important
influences on my thinking, although I wouldn't necessarily describe my writing
as stylistically similar to theirs. I'm drawn to the accessibility and
spiritual intimacy of contemplative literature, and I hope my poetry offers
readers that same sense of invitation rather than instruction.
9. What challenges did you overcome in the
writing of this book?
One of the greatest challenges was learning to trust my own voice.
When I first began writing, I didn't have a formal background in
poetry, and I wasn't particularly interested in following a conventional
literary path.
I was writing because I felt compelled to express something.
Over time, I had to learn the difference between improving my work
and changing it simply because I thought it needed to sound more like someone
else's.
Another challenge was finding ways to write about universal ideas
without losing the personal experiences that gave those ideas meaning.
Love, healing, and connection are enormous subjects. The challenge
is finding the small, recognizable human moments through which those ideas
become real.
10. If people can buy or read one book this week
or month, why should it be yours?
Because I believe there's something in this collection that nearly
everyone can recognize within themselves.
Our Love Is the Cure isn't asking readers to adopt a particular
philosophy or believe exactly what I believe.
It's an invitation to explore the possibility that beneath our
differences, fears, and personal histories, we have far more in common than we
sometimes realize.
And because I've made the ebook freely available, readers can
explore the collection without a financial barrier.
If even one poem helps someone approach themselves or another
person with a little more understanding, then I think the time spent reading it
will have been worthwhile.
Author Biography: Matt Buonocore is an independent poet and author
whose work explores love, healing, self-discovery, and spiritual awakening. He
began writing poetry at twenty-three, discovering an unexpected passion for
expressing the human experience through verse. Influenced by contemplative
philosophy and his own journey of personal transformation, Matt writes about
the ways suffering, compassion, and awareness can change our relationship with
ourselves and the world. His books include Our Love Is the Cure, My
Heart as the Map, The Magic of the Moment, and numerous other
collections. Through his writing, he hopes to encourage readers to recognize
the beauty and possibility within their everyday lives. He can be found on Instagram
— @modern_sooth.
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