Some authors are uncomfortable speaking about their
accomplishments. They feel like it will be seen as bragging. They just find
themselves fearful of stating facts that place them in a positive light. On the
other end of the spectrum are people who don’t blink twice when making up
stories, laying claim to accomplishments that never happened, and falsifying
their resume. Meet George Santos.
He is only the sixth member of the United States
House of Representatives to get expelled while serving in Congress. He was
arrested and convicted on charges of identity theft and wire fraud. He lied
about everything in order to get elected to Congress and broke various campaign
laws. He lived a hoax. He was sentenced to prison for seven years and three
months after he pled guilty. He will only serve fewer than three months behind bars after
President Donald Trump, no stranger to lying, normalizing distortions, and ignoring
the truth himself, commuted his sentence. He also no longer has to pay nearly $600,000 in forfeiture and restitution.
Why?
Because of politics, maybe blackmail, and probably
money. It was not on the merits of the case or about a fair trial. Santos was
dead wrong, the proof was there, and he confessed. Proper procedures were
followed. There is no justice system.
I don’t want to write a post about what a scumbag
Santos is — it is obvious to everyone, even most Republicans, nor about how
Trump, even if you like some of his policies, is breaking our democracy down
(dictator on free speech, waging lawfare on his enemies, seeking to fire people
who disagree with him, illegally using the national guard). No, that is for
others to do. But the plight of Santos should in some ways buoy authors to see
they should not fear to promote a truthful version of themselves.
The lesson here is not to lie, falsify records, or
cheat to get what you want, even though Santos is proof that you can do just
that. No, his story should tell you that you have nothing to fear or feel
guilty about when highlighting your accomplishments and positive attributes.
We can’t let a loser lie and break the rules just
to aggrandize himself — and get away with it — while you, an honest and decent
person feel awkward to say you won an award, graduated from a great school, or
did some good deeds. You should shed any reservations and get out there and let
anyone know who will listen that you believe you have a great book and to share
any supportive statements that will help people be open to trying your book.
The only lie you must avoid is the one you tell
yourself, the one that says you are not good enough, that no one cares about
you, or that says you feel like an impostor. Fear not. We need to hear your
truth and not the lies of Santos.
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About Brian Feinblum
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For
the past three decades, Brian Feinblum has helped thousands of authors. He
formed his own book publicity firm in 2020. Prior to that, for 21 years as the
head of marketing for the nation’s largest book publicity firm, and as the
director of publicity at two independent presses, Brian has worked with many
first-time, self-published, authors of all genres, right along with
best-selling authors and celebrities such as: Dr. Ruth, Mark Victor Hansen,
Joseph Finder, Katherine Spurway, Neil Rackham, Harvey Mackay, Ken Blanchard,
Stephen Covey, Warren Adler, Cindy Adams, Todd Duncan, Susan RoAne, John C.
Maxwell, Jeff Foxworthy, Seth Godin, and Henry Winkler.
His
writings are often featured in The Writer and IBPA’s
The Independent (https://pubspot.ibpa-online.org/article/whats-needed-to-promote-a-book-successfully). He was recently interviewed by the IBPA: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F0BhO9m8jbs
He
hosted a panel on book publicity for Book Expo America several years ago, and
has spoken at ASJA, BookCAMP, Independent Book Publishers Association Sarah
Lawrence College, Nonfiction Writers Association, Cape Cod Writers Association,
Willamette (Portland) Writers Association, APEX, Morgan James Publishing, and
Connecticut Authors and Publishers Association. He served as a judge for the
2024 IBPA Book Awards.
His
letters-to-the-editor have been published in The Wall Street Journal,
USA Today, New York Post, NY Daily News, Newsday, The Journal News (Westchester)
and The Washington Post. His first published book was The
Florida Homeowner, Condo, & Co-Op Association Handbook. It
was featured in The Sun Sentinel and Miami Herald.
Born
and raised in Brooklyn, he now resides in Westchester with his wife, two kids,
and Ferris, a black lab rescue dog, and El Chapo, a pug rescue dog.
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can connect with him at: https://www.linkedin.com/in/brianfeinblum/ or https://www.facebook.com/brian.feinblum
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