1. What
is your new book, Bedtime Stories For Clever Kids, about? It’s is a
collection of stories that are meant to entertain kids and parents at bedtime
while introducing high level topics for discussion. Stories are a wonderful
gateway into the imagination and the mind of a child. These stories take
children to places they would never think to go, like a monastery in the Middle
Ages, seen through the eyes of a dog. They are taken to tall ships at anchor in
Table Bay in the 1800s, to listen to a conversation between figureheads on the
prow about the most difficult job on earth. Or to cleaning stained glass
windows high up in a cathedral, only to learn that we are windows to the world
too.
2. What
inspired its creation? I have been writing stories for my grandchildren
since 2017. But during Covid I realized that parents in lockdown with small
kids deserve a break at bedtime. So, I started sending stories to everyone I
knew that were in lockdown with young kids. And they loved the stories. They
aren’t typical. Some are quirky. Some are whimsical. And some are exciting and
full of adventure. But in between are hidden deep issues of tolerance, family,
validation and kindness. I thought the stories can do much more with a wider
audience.
3. You
enjoyed painting since childhood and your book is filled with numerous
paintings. However, by trade, you have practiced law for 36 years and were just
appointed a judge of the High Court in South Africa. What do you enjoy most
when you are painting? Whether I paint, address a court, write a judgment
or write a children’s story I am creating images. The difference is the
instrument being used. Whether it is my voice, my pen, or my paintbrush I
create pictures in the minds of others. So, the same creative process finds
expression in different forms. But, painting is therapy, and is, not unlike the
practice of law, an exercise in the art of reduction. You start with broad
brush strokes and end with detail. The greatest difference is the joy of line,
light and color.
4. The
stories in this book were initially written in anticipation of having
grandchildren, of which you now have six. What were you thinking when you
started to craft them? While some stories were written before the
grandchildren arrived, some of them have become the main characters in their
own stories My stories are sometimes written with a specific child in mind.
Bear in mind that this book only has eleven stories, while there are many more
already written and illustrated. When I wrote the first stories, I was hoping
to be a voice in the mind of my grandchildren in the form of a story, in case I
never met them. It was a conversation I wished to have with my grandchildren.
5. During
the pandemic, you wrote and disseminated stories for free to parents with small
children. What was their reaction, both to the content and your kind gesture? I
had a general outpouring of appreciation and thanks. And a request for more.
Some parents commented that they had never seen stories like these and they and
their kids loved the quirkiness. And the parents said some stories often had to
be reread.
6. You
believe that children can handle serious and difficult topics. What types of
topics do you tackle in your book? Giving a list of themes can sound a bit
heavy, but the topics are introduced with a light hand and in a fun manner. The
themes, other than those I have mentioned, include the different forms of
freedom, discovering dimensions, breaking new boundaries, jealousy, adoption,
motherhood, love, validation and self-acceptance
7. But, when parents read your stories aloud to their small children, they experience them on a different level. Through your sense of humor, does the adult get a different message or point of understanding? The humor is there because I want to entertain the parents and the kids- and myself. Word play is a rich source of fun. For a child a gosling is a small goose. For the mother it might be Ryan Gosling. I keep both kids and parents in the loop. Inside jokes aren’t just entertainment. It is to remind parents that heavy topics don’t need to be heavy. Keeping it light promotes receptiveness on the part of the children and helps the medicine go down.
8. You grew up in a South Africa under apartheid. What was it like for you? As a child on a sugar estate, I was clueless. My brother and sister played with Zulu kids on the farm where we lived before I was born. They both speak the language. But I grew up in a segregated area unaware of what I was missing out on. Only in high school in Durban did I get exposure to black kids due to a leadership program of the Rotary Club. It was a revelation that I grew up in a different world to them, just a few kilometers apart. It was so unnatural- and so unfair. But it was impossible to get a proper perspective if everything you hear is filtered information. It was only at university that I could make up my own mind.
9. Where do things stand, now, some 30 years since that form of destructive rule ended? I see city schools as the melting pot for the new South Africa. I think that kids can now form friendships at school without noticing race. Initially there was a language barrier, but English has become the lingua franca in most of South Africa, and even in the courts. There is a great improvement in race relations. There are setbacks, but there is a cohesion in the nation. South Africa hosted the FIFA World Cup in 2010- it was a wonderful time when divisive politics went quiet and we discovered as a nation that we actually like one another. It is a great country in so many respects. When we won the Rugby World Cup for the fourth time in 2023, there was an outpouring of national pride that is wonderful to see. Rugby in particular, has been a healing balm to South Africa. And it started in 1995 when Nelson Mandela wore the Springbok jersey when handing over the cup to the victorious South African captain in their first World Cup win.
10. You write of freedom, the environment, tolerance, and self-worth. How can a child process these things at a young age? Stories can prepare kids for when life happens. Picture this-A child is on a beach that is littered with garbage. Or sees a river with scum on the water. The child sees these things. So, talk about the environment. Or a boy returns from kindergarten upset by being bullied-by a girl. These life events are gateways to topics being introduced like respect, boundaries, standing up for yourself, and self-worth. A story about it can prepare the child without the trauma.
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