I
recently underwent a medical test that required anesthesia. I’ve had it over a dozen times, so it’s
become quite routine, but what I found that was not so typical was my reaction
once I awoke. I felt a sense of clarity,
renewal, and cleansing. I was given a
fresh start.
It’s
not that I survived going under, though I’m thankful a routine thing didn’t
turn into anything more, but there was
something about feeling like I went somewhere far away and came back to realize
I want a new beginning, a chance to make things better, achieve my goals, and
improve my relationships in life.
Call
it my anesthesia moment.
You can have your own -- and not see a doctor to do so. Just find a moment to declare a break from the past. Give yourself a chance to feel you have a clean slate to move forward. Step out of your routine and away from your obligations. Give yourself a respite, however brief, to transition from before to after.
You can have your own -- and not see a doctor to do so. Just find a moment to declare a break from the past. Give yourself a chance to feel you have a clean slate to move forward. Step out of your routine and away from your obligations. Give yourself a respite, however brief, to transition from before to after.
It’s
a weird sensation to go from awake to sleep and to be aware of it
happening. One second you are alert,
eyes open, and talking. The next, you
are in snoozeland, unaware of what’s being done to you or around you. Suddenly, your reality lived on the
outside, is a different one on the inside.
How
might you get your anesthesia moment?
Well,
first you need to want one. Then you’ll
find it.
Give
yourself a free day to ponder, to dream, to nap, to not be consumed by work,
family or the distractions of social media and entertainment. Don’t use drugs, alcohol, food, gambling, sex
or other addictive crutches. Just let
yourself almost meditate your way from where you are to get to where you want
to be.
It’s
not as easy as it sounds. We are entrenched in the details of our daily
reality. It’s hard to just turn all of the noise off and just walk away from
life. But if we don’t find a way to
distance ourselves from, well, ourselves, we’ll never be able to properly take
stock of ourselves and look to make the right changes.
You
don’t have to make New Year’s resolutions to give yourself a fresh start. Nothing wrong with making vows to change, but
I’m talking about finding a clear-cut way to become something more or other
than you’ve been. Seek out your
anesthesia moment and find inspiration from someone, something or the
environment around you. Make a
commitment to change – and you will. Embrace
the new you.
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