Friday, December 26, 2025

Great Writer, But Are You A Good Speaker?

 

 

Authors may see themselves as writers, but they are also speaker. To promote a book, one should be prepared to go out and speak at bookstores, libraries, events, conferences, places of worship, corporate retreats, and anywhere that will welcome you.

 

According to the book, Speak Memorably: “Push beyond your comfort zone, stand out rather than blend in, break the mold of traditions and develop an allergy to conformity.” Is that you?

 

Authors who are strong speakers can:

 

·         Display empathy for their audience

·         Verbalize the feelings and emotions of their listeners

·         Be seen as likeable and authentic

·         Smile often and come off as being positive

·         Manipulate their voice to consistently get your attention

·         Be anecdotal, visually expressive, and look sincere

 

Speakers can be many things, but they are not perfect. That’s okay, neither are you. People do not expect perfection. In fact, when confronted with it, people look to question is and find a hole, a weakness, or a contradiction. No one can be that good, right?

 

Be sure to:

 

·         Articulate interesting ideas

·         Provide something helpful to another

·         Show an awareness for the audience’s place in the world

·         Match your lexicon and vernacular to your audience

·         Use analogies and metaphors that people can relate to

·         Coin a term or two and sprinkle them into your speech

·         Avoid using acronyms, jargon, and cliches

 

Good speakers ask questions of the audience, polling them to get a sense of what they know and believe, so he or she can be more selective and effective with the topics covered or the views stated.

 

The key to a strong presentation is to understand that studies have shown that audience members only remember half of what is said the next hour, 25% by the next day, and just 10% by the end of the week. Studies also show that 55% are persuaded by a speaker’s body language, 38% by the speaker’s vocal delivery, and only 7% by the speaker’s content. So, it’s not just what you say, but how you say it that counts.

 

The Physical presence that you bring to the stage should not by underestimated. Your hand gestures, body movement, stance, facial expressions, the sound of your voice, and the level of energy conveyed can really have some impact. Even how often you pause – and for how long – can change the trajectory of how you are perceived and remembered.

 

In Don’t Say Um: How To Communicate Effectively To Live A Better Life, the author wants you to answer yes to each of these questions – or else you need to change your presentation style.

 

“Is your eye contact direct and sustained?

Does your voice have variety and dynamic range?

Are your gestures free, fluid, and specific?

Are you using sufficient breath to create sound?

Are you speaking deliberately enough that you can choose the words you want to say?

Are you enunciating those words clearly enough to be understood?”

 

You do not have to be a psychologist or an expert speaker to know there ar many things an author can do to enhance a presentation and to minimize distractions or points of weakness. But what you have to be aware of id that you can always improve and that being a powerful speaker can make you a powerful author.

 

Do You Need Book Marketing Help?

Brian Feinblum, the founder of this award-winning blog, with over four million page views, can be reached at brianfeinblum@gmail.com  He is available to help authors like you to promote your story, sell your book, and grow your brand. He has over 30 years of experience in successfully helping thousands of authors in all genres. Let him be your advocate, teacher, and motivator!

 

About Brian Feinblum

This award-winning blog has generated over 4.7 million pageviews. With 5,400+ posts over the past 14 years, it was named one of the best book marketing blogs  by BookBaby  http://blog.bookbaby.com/2013/09/the-best-book-marketing-blogs  and recognized by Feedspot in 2021 and 2018 as one of the top book marketing blogs. It was also named by www.WinningWriters.com as a "best resource.”  Copyright 2025.

 

For the past three decades, Brian Feinblum has helped thousands of authors. He formed his own book publicity firm in 2020. Prior to that, for 21 years as the head of marketing for the nation’s largest book publicity firm, and as the director of publicity at two independent presses, Brian has worked with many first-time, self-published, authors of all genres, right along with best-selling authors and celebrities such as: Dr. Ruth, Mark Victor Hansen, Joseph Finder, Katherine Spurway, Neil Rackham, Harvey Mackay, Ken Blanchard, Stephen Covey, Warren Adler, Cindy Adams, Todd Duncan, Susan RoAne, John C. Maxwell, Jeff Foxworthy, Seth Godin, and Henry Winkler.

 

His writings are often featured in The Writer and IBPA’s The Independent (https://pubspot.ibpa-online.org/article/whats-needed-to-promote-a-book-successfully). He was recently interviewed by the IBPA: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F0BhO9m8jbs

 

He hosted a panel on book publicity for Book Expo America several years ago, and has spoken at ASJA, BookCAMP, Independent Book Publishers Association Sarah Lawrence College, Nonfiction Writers Association, Cape Cod Writers Association, Willamette (Portland) Writers Association, APEX, Morgan James Publishing, and Connecticut Authors and Publishers Association. He served as a judge for the 2024 IBPA Book Awards.

 

His letters-to-the-editor have been published in The Wall Street Journal, USA Today, New York Post, NY Daily News, Newsday, The Journal News (Westchester) and The Washington Post. His first published book was The Florida Homeowner, Condo, & Co-Op Association Handbook.  It was featured in The Sun Sentinel and Miami Herald.

 

Born and raised in Brooklyn, he now resides in Westchester with his wife, two kids, and Ferris, a black lab rescue dog, and El Chapo, a pug rescue dog.

 

You can connect with him at: https://www.linkedin.com/in/brianfeinblum/ or https://www.facebook.com/brian.feinblum

Wednesday, December 24, 2025

Authors Can Market Around These 1500+ Honorary Days, Holidays & Anniversaries


  

How can authors get attention for their books -- aside from winning book awards, getting critical acclaim from book reviews, making public appearances and speaking, or getting attention on social media? 

Authors have several things going for them when they are looking to promote their book and tie its message to something that is relevant or timely.  

Authors may be able to draw from: 

·         Their background

·         Contemporary fashions, beliefs, or morals

·         The subject matter of their book

·         What is in the news

·         Things that are trending online

·         Anniversaries, holidays, or honorary days 

Let's  explore that last one -- special days. Have a look at this useful resource:
https://www.brownielocks.com/b3bcalendar.html?202601. It offers over 1500 such days. Why is this helpful to authors?
 

You can scan the calendar in less than an hour and see all kinds of days to link your message to. You now have over 1500 excuses to market your book. Each special day is a legitimate and logical reason to contact the news media, solicit speaking engagements, or craft social media content. 

If you have a book that has to do with family drama or strong mothers, you may want to tie your book into Mother's Day, or perhaps you wrote an Italian cookbook and it's National Pizza Day. Or maybe your book is about a disease, and that disease, like breast cancer, has an honorary spot on the calendar.  

Use this to create: 

·         Blog posts

·         Produce a podcast

·         Byline articles for newspapers, magazines, newsletters, and guest blog posts

·         Themed website content

·         Pitches to the news media to solicit interview opportunities

·         Solicitations to bookstores for speaking engagements 

So, when you say you don't know what to write about for your next blog post -- or are looking for a timely topic to peg your book to for the news media -- consult the calendar of honorary days and find yourself with plenty of ammunition.

 

Do You Need Book Marketing Help?

Brian Feinblum can be reached at brianfeinblum@gmail.com  He is available to help authors like you to promote your story, sell your book, and grow your brand. He has over 30 years of experience in successfully helping thousands of authors in all genres. Let him be your advocate, teacher, and motivator! 

 

About Brian Feinblum

This award-winning blog has generated over 5,400,000 page views. With 5,500+ posts over the past 14 years, it was named one of the best book marketing blogs  by BookBaby  http://blog.bookbaby.com/2013/09/the-best-book-marketing-blogs  and recognized by Feedspot in 2021 and 2018 as one of the top book marketing blogs. It was also named by www.WinningWriters.com as a "best resource.”  Copyright 2025.

 

For the past three decades, Brian Feinblum has helped thousands of authors. He formed his own book publicity firm in 2020. Prior to that, for 21 years as the head of marketing for the nation’s largest book publicity firm, and as the director of publicity at two independent presses, Brian has worked with many first-time, self-published, authors of all genres, right along with best-selling authors and celebrities such as: Dr. Ruth, Mark Victor Hansen, Joseph Finder, Katherine Spurway, Neil Rackham, Harvey Mackay, Ken Blanchard, Stephen Covey, Warren Adler, Cindy Adams, Todd Duncan, Susan RoAne, John C. Maxwell, Jeff Foxworthy, Seth Godin, and Henry Winkler.

 

His writings are often featured in The Writer and IBPA’s The Independent (https://pubspot.ibpa-online.org/article/whats-needed-to-promote-a-book-successfully). He was recently interviewed by the IBPA: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F0BhO9m8jbs

 

He hosted a panel on book publicity for Book Expo America several years ago, and has spoken at ASJA, BookCAMP, Independent Book Publishers Association Sarah Lawrence College, Nonfiction Writers Association, Cape Cod Writers Association, Willamette (Portland) Writers Association, APEX, Morgan James Publishing, and Connecticut Authors and Publishers Association. He served as a judge for the 2024 IBPA Book Awards.

 

His letters-to-the-editor have been published in The Wall Street Journal, USA Today, New York Post, NY Daily News, Newsday, The Journal News (Westchester) and The Washington Post. His first published book was The Florida Homeowner, Condo, & Co-Op Association Handbook.  It was featured in The Sun Sentinel and Miami Herald.

 

Born and raised in Brooklyn, he now resides in Westchester with his wife, two kids, and Ferris, a black lab rescue dog, and El Chapo, a pug rescue dog.

 

You can connect with him at: https://www.linkedin.com/in/brianfeinblum/ or https://www.facebook.com/brian.feinblum

 

 

Monday, December 22, 2025

Ode To The Doomed: 7 Thoughts


 

Incompetence has gone mainstream. 

Standards are diluted.

Technology makes us weaker.

Facts and lies are now parts of truths.

Too many lead by ego, and not by example.

We are humanizing robots and robotizing humans.

I search the Internet, therefore I am.

 

 

Do You Need Book Marketing Help?

Brian Feinblum can be reached at brianfeinblum@gmail.com  He is available to help authors like you to promote your story, sell your book, and grow your brand. He has over 30 years of experience in successfully helping thousands of authors in all genres. Let him be your advocate, teacher, and motivator! 


About Brian Feinblum

This award-winning blog has generated over 5,400,000 page views. With 5,400+ posts over the past 14 years, it was named one of the best book marketing blogs  by BookBaby  http://blog.bookbaby.com/2013/09/the-best-book-marketing-blogs  and recognized by Feedspot in 2021 and 2018 as one of the top book marketing blogs. It was also named by www.WinningWriters.com as a "best resource.”  Copyright 2025.

 

For the past three decades, Brian Feinblum has helped thousands of authors. He formed his own book publicity firm in 2020. Prior to that, for 21 years as the head of marketing for the nation’s largest book publicity firm, and as the director of publicity at two independent presses, Brian has worked with many first-time, self-published, authors of all genres, right along with best-selling authors and celebrities such as: Dr. Ruth, Mark Victor Hansen, Joseph Finder, Katherine Spurway, Neil Rackham, Harvey Mackay, Ken Blanchard, Stephen Covey, Warren Adler, Cindy Adams, Todd Duncan, Susan RoAne, John C. Maxwell, Jeff Foxworthy, Seth Godin, and Henry Winkler.

 

His writings are often featured in The Writer and IBPA’s The Independent (https://pubspot.ibpa-online.org/article/whats-needed-to-promote-a-book-successfully). He was recently interviewed by the IBPA: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F0BhO9m8jbs

 

He hosted a panel on book publicity for Book Expo America several years ago, and has spoken at ASJA, BookCAMP, Independent Book Publishers Association Sarah Lawrence College, Nonfiction Writers Association, Cape Cod Writers Association, Willamette (Portland) Writers Association, APEX, Morgan James Publishing, and Connecticut Authors and Publishers Association. He served as a judge for the 2024 IBPA Book Awards.

 

His letters-to-the-editor have been published in The Wall Street Journal, USA Today, New York Post, NY Daily News, Newsday, The Journal News (Westchester) and The Washington Post. His first published book was The Florida Homeowner, Condo, & Co-Op Association Handbook.  It was featured in The Sun Sentinel and Miami Herald.

 

Born and raised in Brooklyn, he now resides in Westchester with his wife, two kids, and Ferris, a black lab rescue dog, and El Chapo, a pug rescue dog.

 

You can connect with him at: https://www.linkedin.com/in/brianfeinblum/ or https://www.facebook.com/brian.feinblum

 

 

Sunday, December 21, 2025

Can Authors Market Themselves By Omission?


 

“A study once showed that 60 percent of people surveyed admitted lying or stretching that truth within a ten-minute conversation,” writes Roger Flax, PHD, in his book, Forget That!

 

People are not always honest, not always forthcoming with relevant information, and not always stating facts but rather opinions. When you market a book, it is important that you never lie - -but how you disclose of the truth is another matter.

 

Let’s say you believe there are many books that are better than yours. Not only are you not legally required to disclose this, there is no moral imperative from the marketing industry to force you to say such things. In other words, you don’t have to share your views with others.

 

Nor, are you required by law or marketing standards, to share any facts that could persuade your customers not to buy your book. By omission, you can market yourself. Let silence be your ally.

 

Now the hard part – hype. Should you put it out there that your book is great when you believe it is merely good? When you get back a book review, and most of it is mediocre, with one or more criticisms, and just one positive sentence, is it ok to quote just the good part?

 

Look, in a court of law, there are two sides to everything and evidence, witnesses, and records are presented to determine an innocent, or guilty decision. But in the world of book marketing, there is nothing stepping you from presenting a one-sided, bias viewpoint about your book.

 

No one advertises that eight awards rejected their book, but they all will highlight the ones who gave them positive recognition as a finalist or winner.

 

Authors don’t highlight that 50 publishers rejected their book for publication or that dozens of literary agents \declined to represent them. They just promote that they have a published book and stay forward-looking.

 

Some writers may be terrible people, bad parents, tax cheats, drug addicts, racists, and domestic abusers - -but none of that has to be made public by the author. In fact, their private life is something that writers can just ignore unless it gets raised by others.

 

You hopefully take pride in your writing and conduct proper research, editing, and re-writing, but writers can easily slop together a book with unconfirmed content. The burden comes on the public to discern if a book is very good, accurate, or purchased often.

 

So, dear author, don’t take all of this as a license or mission to put out garbage and to market your book using questionable tactics. Instead, open your eyes to the pitfalls of the book world, and take ownership and responsibility for generating quality content and promoting it in a fair and decent way.

 

 

Do You Need Book Marketing Help?

Brian Feinblum can be reached at brianfeinblum@gmail.com  He is available to help authors like you to promote your story, sell your book, and grow your brand. He has over 30 years of experience in successfully helping thousands of authors in all genres. Let him be your advocate, teacher, and motivator! 

 

About Brian Feinblum

This award-winning blog has generated over 5,350,000 page views. With 5,400+ posts over the past 14 years, it was named one of the best book marketing blogs  by BookBaby  http://blog.bookbaby.com/2013/09/the-best-book-marketing-blogs  and recognized by Feedspot in 2021 and 2018 as one of the top book marketing blogs. It was also named by www.WinningWriters.com as a "best resource.”  Copyright 2025.

 

For the past three decades, Brian Feinblum has helped thousands of authors. He formed his own book publicity firm in 2020. Prior to that, for 21 years as the head of marketing for the nation’s largest book publicity firm, and as the director of publicity at two independent presses, Brian has worked with many first-time, self-published, authors of all genres, right along with best-selling authors and celebrities such as: Dr. Ruth, Mark Victor Hansen, Joseph Finder, Katherine Spurway, Neil Rackham, Harvey Mackay, Ken Blanchard, Stephen Covey, Warren Adler, Cindy Adams, Todd Duncan, Susan RoAne, John C. Maxwell, Jeff Foxworthy, Seth Godin, and Henry Winkler.

 

His writings are often featured in The Writer and IBPA’s The Independent (https://pubspot.ibpa-online.org/article/whats-needed-to-promote-a-book-successfully). He was recently interviewed by the IBPA: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F0BhO9m8jbs

 

He hosted a panel on book publicity for Book Expo America several years ago, and has spoken at ASJA, BookCAMP, Independent Book Publishers Association Sarah Lawrence College, Nonfiction Writers Association, Cape Cod Writers Association, Willamette (Portland) Writers Association, APEX, Morgan James Publishing, and Connecticut Authors and Publishers Association. He served as a judge for the 2024 IBPA Book Awards.

 

His letters-to-the-editor have been published in The Wall Street Journal, USA Today, New York Post, NY Daily News, Newsday, The Journal News (Westchester) and The Washington Post. His first published book was The Florida Homeowner, Condo, & Co-Op Association Handbook.  It was featured in The Sun Sentinel and Miami Herald.

 

Born and raised in Brooklyn, he now resides in Westchester with his wife, two kids, and Ferris, a black lab rescue dog, and El Chapo, a pug rescue dog.

 

You can connect with him at: https://www.linkedin.com/in/brianfeinblum/ or https://www.facebook.com/brian.feinblum