What inspired you to write your book? I hadn’t really planned to write a book. My medium had always been youth theatre, as a director, teacher and published playwright, so I began writing what I thought would be a fifty-minute play, about an impetuous little princess. The main character, Maagy, is an amalgamation of my two daughters and my two granddaughters. I watched my son with his girls and remembered some of our difficulties, raising his two sisters. The ideas seemed to flow like water. I knew it was no longer a children’s play, when there was more scenery description than conversation and it was 150 pages long! I had embarked upon a ten-year adventure, of my own. There are four more books, already, and no end in sight.
What are its central themes? “Just Maagy” is really about the struggles girls face, when growing into womanhood. The story begins on Maagy’s thirteenth birthday, a time of hormonal changes, emotional roller coasters and storm clouds on the horizon. To make matters worse, her widowed father has spoiled her. Maagy must learn to cope with her coming of age, as well as, her destiny. Her journey addresses fundamental social issues, such as integrity, humility, empathy and social responsibility (after all, she will become the queen in five years and she is woefully unprepared for it). Maagy is feisty and not afraid to stand up for what she believes and is, also, not afraid to stand up to those who would try to intimidate or bully her. This is important in today’s adolescent climate.
How do we teach these things to kids? First and foremost, start early! Even babies can begin to learn manners... require “please” and “thank you”… teach them to use eating utensils, instead of their fingers… teach them to pick up their toys and clothes and put them away. It may take a great deal of patience, with some, but the reward, for consistently requiring standards is worth the effort. These lessons are about far more than etiquette or tidying up. Second, but certainly not less important, always live the message being spoken. Words are fine, but nothing teaches integrity and humility like watching a parent set a good example, by always doing the right thing, when the wrong thing would be so much easier. Finally, keep love in your heart, even if anger is flying out of your mouth! Choices have consequences, but bad decisions do not make bad children. Discipline from a place of concern and wellbeing, not from a place of revenge or spitefulness. It’s always easy to “Monday Morning Quarterback”. I’ve raised my babies and see the rewards, but, honestly, when I was in the thick of it, I’m not sure I could have been so philosophical!
What challenges did you overcome in writing this book? What I had to overcome was my own myopic vision of my work. Truthfully, I had to get over myself! In the beginning… fall of 2004… I was writing a book about me. I was processing my sub conscience, even though I didn’t recognize it, at the time, creating a cathartic adventure, as lived through my little princess. But then, the well of creativity ran dry, after a year or so. In about 2010, I rediscovered “Growing up Maagy”, the working title for the book, and began, anew. I was inexperienced at the skill and art of writing and developed a “style” I thought was oh-so-cute. It was pretentious. I was writing from a periscope’s viewpoint, until an old friend, from the past, just happened to visit and I imposed upon him to read it and give me perspective. His carefully worded phrases of both critique and praise, for what was good, opened Maagy’s world to me and, over the next two years, I had the majority of three more books well under way. The next obstacle was deciding whether I was writing strictly for myself or if I wanted other people to read my words and glean something useful. I knew that, with the latter, I would need to be brutal with the cuts… there was so much of my own childhood that no one else could possibly find interesting. I made the right decision and the cutting and crying began. Once I had a product I was proud of, it was time to let other people read… oh boy! I’m a pretty tough old broad, but hearing comments, which didn’t always mesh with my lofty opinions, was sobering. However, I worked hard to jump that hurdle, as well, and forced myself to listen. I even took the suggestions… on a number of occasions. Writing is like any other artistic endeavor. It is very personal… visceral… and critique goes to the gut, like a knife. However, it is also a process, which needs perspective, if the goal is to share the art with the rest of world. It’s a battle I fight with myself, daily!
What do you find is rewarding about being a published author? So far, it’s not the fame and fortune! Hopefully, that will come. Seriously, the best rewards are when I go to schools and talk about the process of writing and read excerpts from “Just Maagy”. I’m an actor, at heart, and give quite an animated rendition of some of the funnier moments… like the food fight, at her birthday party. Then there are poignant moments between her father, King Henry, and Maagy, which the kids find touching. They love the hints of magic and Maagy’s spit-and-vinegar personality. After devoting my life to being a mother, a choice I wouldn’t change for the world, it feels good to be known for something that is uniquely me… even though my children are, in one way or the other, very present, throughout the series of books. I feel as though I have something to share with readers, children and adults, and I’ve accomplished it and that is very rewarding.
Any advice to a struggling writer? KEEP WRITING!!! I’m always full of advice… just ask my kids. Advice is totally free and you can take it or leave it, but if you are asking, then I’m telling… KEEP WRITING!! You definitely will not get it right, the first time. You will need to cut, rewrite, edit, go cold as ice… as dark as a moonless night… but keep at it… if you only write two words at a time. Go back and re-read and edit. Sometimes, it gives you new perspective or triggers a thought. Never leave home without paper and pen or electronic device you can access, in a moment’s notice. I’ve written some of my best scenes while driving between North Carolina and Florida. I can’t count the number of times I’ve stopped at a rest area or Cracker Barrel to drag out the Mac and write something that popped into my head. I’ve extended many a nine-hour drive to ten or eleven! Edit for yourself, at first and then, get someone you trust, to be honest with you, to read your work. Listen, even if you don’t change a word, at least, listen to what they have to say. No one is pricklier about criticism than I am and I don’t always change anything… I’m stubborn that way… but I do listen. The last bit of advice I’ll offer is to consider self-publishing, especially if you’re adamant about keeping the words pure and yours. It’s not cheap. However, if you look at it as your start-up cost to do business, it softens the blow and the expenses are tax deductible. If one takes this route, it is extremely important to choose a reputable publisher, not just a fly by night organization from the Internet. Choose an online, self-publishing company, which is affiliated with a traditional publishing house, as Archway Publishing is a division of Simon and Schuster. This is important, because self-published authors need a lot of support services, like publicity, marketing materials, etc., which many online publishers don’t have. I hope these words of “wisdom” are helpful
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