Author of Cinderella Has Cellulite...And Other Musings
from a ‘Last Wife’!
1.
What inspired you to write you new book? After
25 years of an “okay” marriage I was forced to be a part of the strange new
world of “singles.” My embarrassment
and damaged self-esteem were hard to handle but the real trauma came when I ventured
into the “dating game.” As I traveled through
dating game episodes it became obvious my situation wasn’t unusual; in fact, it
was typical. Life changes for all of us and
some of the changes aren’t pretty. Writing
“Cinderella Has Cellulite” was a cathartic tool I used to help me return balance
to my life.
2.
What
are some of things a woman must consider if a man has been married several
times before their relationship? The operative words are “question and
verify.” Finding my “new husband” didn’t
take long but the journey toward and down the aisle was filled with
turmoil. Mine fields came in many forms;
cynicism, control issues, anger management and financial fixation are danger
zones for any woman. It goes without
saying that a general negative attitude toward the female gender is obviously
off limits.
3.
Is
sex better if a man has had “experience” with other women? Sex should be a
natural delightful experience that blends with the surroundings and mood. In my opinion “practice doesn’t make perfect,”
but the number of exposures absolutely carries increased risks of contracting
debilitating diseases. Voluminous
Experience = Heighten Concerns for me.
4.
If a woman is a “cougar” is she more take
charge and has better sex making a younger man want to be with her? Cougars do take charge in their attempts to satisfy
their needs. They appear to be
forthright with an “anything goes” psyche.
Young men are more vulnerable but the Cougar attitude is attractive to
male egos of any age. The Cougar gets in
trouble when maturity brings a need for more than sex.
5.
How
did you come up with the catchy title “Cinderella Has Cellulite?” Regardless of
whether or not a woman turns out to be a fan of “women’s liberation,” most
girls long for a perfect relationship. As
the reality of living hammers truths into our brains most of us accept humans
are less than perfect. Cinderella may
still have slender feet, but travel up the leg and ugly cellulite often throws
ugly bumps in our travel road.
6.
How do step children impact the relationship
and remarriage? Magnify every story you have heard and you still won’t get
it. Until one or both partners reach the
point of “disconnect” children of any age on either side are perfect tender for
instant fires that can destroy peace. For any chance of long-term survival, partners
require a strong commitment to each other when stepchildren are involved.
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