I caught part of a very good movie on TV the other day, The Wolf of Wall Street. I have already viewed it a few times. It dramatizes the true story of a Wall Street con man. Margot Robbie plays his wife. He is as genius at manipulating people as she is at being gorgeous. That is how good he was. I got to thinking: How can authors employ his methods — legally — to persuade others to buy their book?
He had charisma, looks, money, and confidence. Those are big plusses. Whereas
he sold nothing of substance (pump and dump stocks), he was wildly successful.
He got staff people riled up to commit crimes and swindle money out of others.
He became wealthy, but greed — and a drug addiction — did him in.
Still, can we admire the power and abilities of the criminal mind — rogues, con
men, swindlers, hustlers, pimps, and playas? Or, are they so toxic, morally
bankrupt, and even violent, to the point we fail to appreciate how they seem to
get what they want?
We can learn from anyone, from Mother Theresa and The Pope, to Adolph Hitler
and Bernie Madoff, about how one influences another. CEOs of a Fortune 500
corporation sometimes act like gangster godfathers. We each need to discover
what style of persuasion can work for ourselves — and whether we feel morally
up to the task.
Hoaxers simply lie. Anyone can do that. But do you want to? I hope not.
Bullies simply use force and threats of it. Anyone with a fist or weapon can do that. But do you want to use violence to succeed? I should think not.
Psychos and cult leaders like to manipulate
people through fear, insecurity, and skewed interpretations of reality. Do you
want to succeed through psychological warfare? Unlikely.
But there is plenty that one can say or do that is purely legal, ethical, and
risky to make money, get what they want, and even sell more books. What are you
willing to do?
Authors can win people over by:
* Employing pressure tactics. Make claims of there being a scarce opportunity that is about to be lost unless acted upon.
* Utilizing humor. Keep ‘em laughing and you come off as likable.
* Smiling and being friendly. It never hurts to look happy and come off as someone who could be their friend.
* Faking sincerity and authenticity. Flattery or sounding like you give a crap goes a long way to winning others over.
* Becoming their drug or point of escape. Turn your book into an opportunity to get high on a story that takes them away from their troubles.
* Banking on your good looks. Most women and men like to associate with good-looking, well-dressed, sexualized individuals. Either someone wants to be you — or be with you.
* Playing into their big-dream pursuits. Help them see how your book pushes them closer to them getting what they want.
* Asking questions. You just need to have them keep talking
about themselves or their opinions.
* Calling upon third-party validation to support your book. Get testimonials, paid book reviews, or book awards to legitimize your book.
Conclusion: The reason Jordan Belfort, aka The Wolf of Wall Street, made tons of money was simple: He was driven and did not stop when warning signs went up. He just talked people into what they wanted to hear and fed them what they wanted to believe. He played with people’s ego, greed, and fear.
No author should commit a crime to sell a book, nor behave on a morally bankrupt manner, but there is plenty one can do that will push others to buy your book. You just need to find the right buttons to press.
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