X in Provence is a novel
about obsession, betrayal and survival set in a place that normally conjures up
paradise. It is a novel that is based,
in part, on the author’s true romance with a narcissist.
1.
What inspired you to write this book? I first wrote this book
as a memoir, recounting the 18 months that I lived in Mazan, a village in the
Provençal region of the Vaucluse. Those 18 months were some of the best and
worst of my life. I wanted, or rather needed, to pour down on paper what I’d
experienced from the fairy tale beginning right to the sordid end. It was a
journey of self-therapy but also of discovering what it is to craft a book –
expressing feelings is quite different from recording global news events. This
book helped me to process intense experiences, sharing the beauty and the
beastliness of this stand-out chapter of my past. Later, I fictionalized the
book, although it still contains much that is true. And the messages remain the
same. Read on!
2.
What exactly is it about — and who is it written for? X in
Provence crafts a new take on a classic theme: the perils of falling in love
with highly charismatic, highly narcissistic personalities. As well as a
(destructive) love story, the book weaves together weighty themes, such as
different cultural nuances, family dynamics and sexual mores, against a
backdrop – Provence – that still lingers in our consciousness as paradise. The
book starts with English journalist Rai leaving a flourishing career in Hong
Kong to move in with her French lover, convinced their futures lie together. In
Provence she discovers la dolce vita – as well as a darker demimonde that she
is thrust into with mixed emotions. Alain, her charmer beau, proposes. After
marriage, however, he turns chilling, eager to berid of the woman he wooed to
Provence, now ruinously hooked on him. Pierre, Alain’searnest younger brother
takes Rai’s side, leading to revelations and some tectonic existential shifts –
reminders that today’s decisions often have utterly unchartered consequences
for our tomorrows.
By a
sheer – if jarring – coincidence, the village of Mazan, where my book is set,
has leapt onto
the world’s radar, sadly not in a salubrious way. X in Provence draws no
parallels between
the atrocities that happened to Gisèle Pelicot in Mazan – which she
courageously chose
to expose in a public trial – and my own story. Yet my novel is the first to
give voice to
a
whole new side of Provence – sex-sodden and treacherous. A strange kind of synchronicity?
In
terms of the audience, my book is primarily aimed at women – of all ages. But I
don’t wish to
exclude men. Indeed, I see it as a solid man’s read, albeit from a female
perspective
3.
What do you hope readers will get out of reading your book? I hope
readers will find my book entertaining, gripping and enlightening – especially
about the mechanisms of manipulation and emotional abuse wielded by
narcissists; and, under their sway, how easy it is for the most confident of
women to sink into submission and self-loathing. I hope readers gain an
understanding that obsessive, possessive intoxication can happen to anyone
regardless of intelligence, education, socio-economic status, or any other characteristic.
While
my book may resonate most deeply with women who have been or are currently in a
relationship with a “baddy”, it’s a clarion call to miss (and mister) everyone everywhere.
Women (or men) who have never been in a destructive relationship may think
that
such a situation could “never happen to me”. Yet this novel may help them to
better understand
how the “never” could end up being “oh my god, it happened to me”. On the bright
side, the take-away is that release and recovery are possible. While we can
fall down
and
shatter into pieces, we can get up and reconstitute ourselves – there is gain
after pain.
I’d
like readers to walk away with a more prurient view of Provence. My book shows
a whole
new facet of life in this southern French region: a place where partner
swapping and other
sexual escapades are popular hobbies, as casual, almost, as nipping out for a
café-au-
lait.
For readers, this ‘other’ Provence may provide new insights into and a new understanding
of certain aspects of French culture (especially given recent events in
Mazan).
This
novel lunges into two sets of sibling dynamics – between three very different
brothers –including
a dead one in India – and three sisters. I’d like to think there will be some
“aha” moments
when reading about things like sibling envy, hurt, resentment and fissures as
well as
forgiveness and succour. Peeling away the layers of complexities around
families other than
our own can be comforting as well as fascinating.
4. How
did you decide on your book’s title and cover design? I came
up with several titles before honing in on X in Provence – admittedly and serendipitously
with the help of a good friend. The title is a play on words, referring to the city
Aix en Provence and to X-rated content. The book cover design came about
through trial and error. I could picture what I wanted but it took a while to
get the visuals to match my idea for a cover that is mysterious, evocative and
provocative, but not complicated.
5.
What advice or words of wisdom do you have for fellow writers – other than run!? It can
be very helpful to have another pair of eyes or two (or three!) to review your manuscript
for guidance and grammatical precision. But a word of caution. Don’t let the
opinions
of others take precedence over what you hold dear. Listen to your inner voice. Take
what resonates from a critique and let go of the rest. Remember, every
professional editor
or literary critic has a different view and their own priorities and
preferences in terms
of
content and form. Hold your ground on what you want to convey and how. My book doesn’t
follow the standard format in fiction and I’m fine with that. Part of being
creative is to
make your own mark in your own way.
6.
What trends in the book world do you see -- and where do you think the book publishing
industry is heading? What I find encouraging is that people
are still reading and buying paperback books, even with the ebook and audio
book explosion. Not that I have anything against electronic or audiobooks. On
the contrary. The more options you have to enjoy the written word, the better.
However, I think that far from dying out, physical books will continue to enjoy
a renaissance. For me, the feel and weight of a book in my hands is still a
thrill.
7.
Were there experiences in your personal life or career that came in handy
when writing
this book? I was passionate about writing X in Provence, but my
discipline as a journalist did help in sitting down at the computer. I’m a
voracious reader and have always loved crafting words. Writing as a
professional activity runs in the family. Given that my book was originally written
as a memoir, I had an existing reservoir of material to draw on as everything I
depicted was based on personal experience.
8. How
would you describe your writing style? Which writers or books is your writing
similar to? I would describe my writing style as literary yet also
accessible and down-to-earth. I love a clever turn of phrase and original
metaphors and I like to think X in Provence is richly endowed with both.
9.
What challenges did you overcome in the writing of this book? There
were several challenges. The fact that I’d worked as a journalist had its
downsides as well as upsides. Capturing details, emotions and realistic
dialogue are definitely learned and acquired skills and at the beginning I
really struggled with these elements. Writing news copy that omits unnecessary
adjectives was my default setting and so I had to unlearn what came
automatically in order to write a book. Fictionalizing my story was a huge
challenge in
terms
of harnessing my imagination and bringing to life in-depth, complex characters.
It was so
much easier to regurgitate memories and describe people I knew. Yet in a
strange way delving
into fiction was also liberating.
10. If
people can buy or read one book this week or month, why should it be yours?
You should buy my book if you want a page-turning,
riveting, rollercoaster ride of a read. If you want to be surprised and shaken.
If you want memorable characters, exotic destinations,
erotic suspense and psychological intrigue. If you want a book that evokes the collective
zeitgeist. In the context of societal shocks, the fact that my book is set in
Mazan and
reveals a murky underbelly to Provence adds to its timeliness and uniqueness.
About
The Author: I grew up in London in a family of four children.
Following undergraduate and Master’s degree studies in New York, I returned to
London where I found my feet in journalism as an investigative reporter in the
shipping industry. For more than a decade I worked for mainstream publications
and news outlets in England, Hong Kong and Switzerland. Switching to a career
in international development, I joined UNICEF and was based for over 14 years
in Bangkok, where my children were born. I currently work as an independent editor,
living in Spain. What drives me is curiosity and the quest to understand, layer
by layer, enigmas that loom large in our lives, guided by father’s mantra:
Never give up. For more information, please see: www.taniruiz.com
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