Every day authors feel rejection. People say no to their
requests to be interviewed by the media. Publishers turn them down. Literary
agents reject them. Critics leave negative reviews. Consumers ignore them.
Silence is their most common feedback. How can authors move past these
obstacles and score a win?
Momentum.
That is what authors need to work in their favor.
Achieve some modicum of success and build on it.
Lay a foundation to score a win and replicate the process for victories to come.
Right now, many writers experience negative
momentum, a cascade of rejection, criticism, or at best, being ignored. But if
they can get a yes or two, suddenly the tide shifts. The no’s and naysayers
then take a backseat to your victory, however small or short-lived.
A yes gives you hope. A yes builds your
confidence. A yes is a real positive sign.
Ironically, the best way to position yourself to
get a yes is to risk getting more no’s. It is a numbers game. You will get
rejected and refused far more often than you get positive feedback. That can
still be a winning formula. The more often you try, and the bigger the ask, the
more likely you will get a yes.
In most cases for authors to succeed, they have
nothing to lose by trying. Worst thing that happens is you remain stuck or fail
to grow. By not trying, you guarantee nothing will happen, so that is a loss,
whether it came by an actual rejection or not. So, the lesson here: there is
only upside in trying and only defeat in not trying.
Ok, so what are things authors could and should be
doing? They must try to identify their targeted market, solicit it over and
over, and live for the yesses.
Ask more people for more things more times. That
is the formula. For instance, if you are handing out fliers about your book,
hand them out on more than one occasion at more than one location. Hand out
more fliers per each time that you hand them out. Don’t count the no’s or
people who shun you. Count only the yesses.
Handing out fliers is one of several dozen things
that you could easily do to market or sell your book. Make a list of other
activities that you could be doing. Commit to doing more activities, more
times, to more people each time. If something appears to be working, keep doing
it. Double down on it.
As you move forward in your attempts to get more
yesses, reflect back on the efficiency of your tactics and analyze what you can
fine-tine and do better. Doing more of good practices and not just more of an
inefficient same is the goal. Authors should look to:
* Understand the rejection rate and experiment on
how to decrease it.
* Celebrate the wins, however few or many.
* Look to always increase the chances for a yes.
* Find their fans and unearth where they live and
breathe.
* Never give up.
* Keep learning, changing, and growing.
* Model how others get a yes.
* Change the offer, the risk, the reward —
whatever it is that will push people closer to a yes.
Have an opportunistic mindset, believe in your
book and yourself, make the extra effort, risk rejection or pride for a win,
and be willing to buy, trade, beg, discount, or give something away to get what
you need and want. Know that you can do this. Now go ahead and do it.
Again and again.
And again.
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Help
Brian
Feinblum, the founder of this award-winning blog, can be reached at brianfeinblum@gmail.com He is available to help authors promote their story, sell
their book, and grow their brand. He has 30 years of experience in successfully
helping thousands of authors in all genres.
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About Brian Feinblum
Brian Feinblum should
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BookMarketingBuzzBlog ©2022. Born and raised in Brooklyn, he now resides in
Westchester with his wife, two kids, and Ferris, a black lab rescue
dog. His writings are often featured in The Writer and
IBPA’s The Independent. This blog, with over 4,000 posts over
the past decade, was named one of the best book marketing blogs by
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recognized by Feedspot in 2021 and 2018 as one of the top book marketing
blogs. It was also named by WinningWriters.com as a "best resource.” For
the past three decades, including 21 as the head of marketing for the nation’s
largest book publicity firm, and two jobs at two independent presses, Brian has
worked with many first-time, self-published, authors of all genres, right along
with best-selling authors and celebrities such as: Dr. Ruth,
Mark Victor Hansen, Joseph Finder, Katherine Spurway, Neil Rackham, Harvey
Mackay, Ken Blanchard, Stephen Covey, Warren Adler, Cindy Adams, Susan RoAne,
Jeff Foxworthy, Seth Godin, and Henry Winkler. He recently hosted a
panel on book publicity for Book Expo America, and has spoken at ASJA, IBPA,
Sarah Lawrence College, Nonfiction Writers Association, Cape Cod Writers
Association, Willamette (Portland) Writers Association, and Connecticut Authors
and Publishers Association. His letters-to-the-editor have been published
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Newsday, The Journal News (Westchester) and The
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