We all tell lies. It is just a matter of to what degree and how often we
do so that separates each of us. Our lying is on a spectrum. For some, the
stakes are high, like when a life is on the line — or a career, marriage, or
business deal. Other times we lie for ego, friendship, convenience, and even
for fun. But we all lie, and if not to others, to ourselves.
Should authors ever lie to market or sell their
books?
Politicians lie. So do the police, lawyers,
doctors, teachers, salespeople parents, store owners, anyone on a date, the
military, and even dog walkers. We lie with the full intention to cover-up a
negative, hype a positive, to stay away from a problem, or to position
ourselves for a payday.
* We lie by cheating: in sports, relationships,
and taxes.
* We lie by omission and intentional silence.
* We lie by not asking, reviewing, or
researching.
* We lie by distortion.
* We lie when cheating or stealing.
* We lie by knowingly making empty threats.
* We lie by suppressing our feelings or views.
Oh, the lies we tell, so many, so often, to
plenty of people on so many possible contexts. See this article about a study
on lies and liars. It gives you insights on who lies and why they do so: https://www.uwlax.edu/currents/how-often-do-people-lie/
Should an author lie for an advantage — or at
least not to be at a disadvantage? How can an author lie? Here are some
examples:
* Fail to mention a bad review or only quote
from the positive part of a mixed review.
* Do not double-check the information in their
books.
* Plagiarize passages.
* Make up quotes in their non-fiction book.
* Hype a book they know is ordinary at best.
* Fake their background qualifications or origin
story.
* Pay for something, like a customer review or
use AI, but do not make it clear that they did so.
* Get testimonials from friends/family but a
conflict-of-interest is not stated.
* Make up reviews or endorsements.
* Intentionally pass along fiction as fact.
* Distort or manipulate images as being natural.
There is a long list of liars and the types of
lies they perpetuate. Some people use lying as a default, addicted to saying
untruths and avoiding the fallout of real-life wrongs. Their go-to is simply to
overstate positives, understate negatives, obfuscate, avoid unfavorable truths,
and manipulate information, images, and ideas in order to position them for an
undeserved advantage, pay-off, or advancement.
Today’s world lives on a trust-truth spectrum
that ranges from serial liars to one-time white lie perpetrators. It could be
illegal, certainly is not ethical, and sometimes can be very costly. Writers
should not lie, but they might do so at times. But lying cannot be a strategy,
a tool that you keep resorting to. Eventually you get caught or feel the guilt
of lying and the fear of getting caught. It eats at you.
We should never lie to market or sell a book,
but each author has to make a choice as to what he or she will do.
What will
you do?
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For
the past three decades, Brian Feinblum has helped thousands of authors. He
formed his own book publicity firm in 2020. Prior to that, for 21 years as the
head of marketing for the nation’s largest book publicity firm, and as the
director of publicity at two independent presses, Brian has worked with many
first-time, self-published, authors of all genres, right along with
best-selling authors and celebrities such as: Dr. Ruth, Mark Victor Hansen,
Joseph Finder, Katherine Spurway, Neil Rackham, Harvey Mackay, Ken Blanchard,
Stephen Covey, Warren Adler, Cindy Adams, Todd Duncan, Susan RoAne, John C.
Maxwell, Jeff Foxworthy, Seth Godin, and Henry Winkler.
His
writings are often featured in The Writer and IBPA’s
The Independent (https://pubspot.ibpa-online.org/article/whats-needed-to-promote-a-book-successfully). He was recently interviewed by the IBPA: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F0BhO9m8jbs
He
hosted a panel on book publicity for Book Expo America several years ago, and
has spoken at ASJA, BookCAMP, Independent Book Publishers Association Sarah
Lawrence College, Nonfiction Writers Association, Cape Cod Writers Association,
Willamette (Portland) Writers Association, APEX, Morgan James Publishing, and
Connecticut Authors and Publishers Association. He served as a judge for the
2024 IBPA Book Awards.
His
letters-to-the-editor have been published in The Wall Street Journal,
USA Today, New York Post, NY Daily News, Newsday, The Journal News (Westchester)
and The Washington Post. His first published book was The
Florida Homeowner, Condo, & Co-Op Association Handbook. It
was featured in The Sun Sentinel and Miami Herald.
Born
and raised in Brooklyn, he now resides in Westchester with his wife, two kids,
and Ferris, a black lab rescue dog, and El Chapo, a pug rescue dog.
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