Every town has two mayors.
Across the United States there are some 20,000 towns, cities, and villages with
an elected mayor. But many of these municipalities have unofficial mayors.
They are not necessarily active in politics or
even civic-minded. No, these are the people who seem to know everyone and
everything that is going on. They are not elected nor appointed. They
self-declare by way of their actions, constantly chatting up anyone on the
street and coming off as self-important.
My town next door actually has two such guys.
Between them, they must know half the population in small-town Larchmont, New
York. They each work the same block or are across the street from one another.
They look to be retired, given they never seem to be anywhere else but holding
court outside a coffee shop, though one of them had told me he has a business.
One of the guys tends to spin stories that his
disciples eagerly lap up, telling one bullshit tale after another from a stoop,
clutching a coffee cup for hours in one hand, a cigarette in the other. The
slumber of the sleepy town is broken by the laughter coming from that mayor and
his minions. As if he needed a reason to stick out more, he has on his
trademark accessories — sunglasses and an old-fashioned hat men last wore in
the 1950s and ‘60s.
He gives off a Bronx vibe, a bit of a
territorial guy who has a clear sense of where his street begins and ends. And
within these imaginary boundaries he will latch onto anyone who will listen to
stories that no one can verify and likely are mere shells of what really took
place, if they even did. For a guy who does nothing all day, he sure seems to
make you feel he has been involved in everything.
Their styles are different but the results are
the same. They manage to connect with everyone in their orbit, whether it is
people walking by unsuspectingly, or those sitting in proximity to them,
looking to just sip coffee from Sunshine Coffee Roasters.
They both have dog props to break the ice and
disarm people, inviting strangers into their clutches. One has a topless
vintage car full of dogs that behave remarkably well while on display. The
other has a tag-along standing by with a dog who gets rotated through the day
with another guy and his dog.
Each one acts as if he is a late-night talk show
host, ready to interview the next person to step onto their stage. Instead of
hearing about a celebrity’s newest movie or show, we learn about each of the
people living in this town that’s just a 35-minute train ride from the city.
Okay, so my point in telling you all of this is
that you, too, can be a mayor of your town, talking people up about your book,
building a network of connections that could extend into the hundreds or
thousands. Why not?
These guys do nothing but talk, ask questions,
tell stories, and show an interest in others. They consistently show up. That
is it. You do not need any qualifications, special trainings, or official
degrees. They are volunteer mayors and they are great at their jobs.
One thing is clear. You can’t sell books being
shy. You need to engage others and initiate contact. Discoverability rarely
happens accidentally or randomly. You create the opportunities that lead to
being discovered.
If you need to see how one becomes mayor, just
take the Metro North Railroad to Larchmont and walk two blocks to Palmer
Avenue. You won’t have trouble picking these two out of a crowd because the
crowds form around them.
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head of marketing for the nation’s largest book publicity firm, and as the
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has spoken at ASJA, three times at BookCAMP, Independent Book Publishers
Association, Sarah Lawrence College, Nonfiction Writers Association, Cape Cod
Writers Association, Willamette (Portland) Writers Association, APEX, five
times at Morgan James Publishing Red Carpet, and Connecticut Authors and
Publishers Association. He served as a judge for the 2024 IBPA Book Awards.
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