I lusted for a girl in high school, back in the early 1980s. I made the mistake of never asking her out. I was intimidated by her beauty, especially her green, cat-like eyes, her light-up-a-room smile, and her sculpted body. She was a quiet one, and not the popular, cheerleader-type. But her attractive look showered any room that she entered.
I wasn’t shy about talking to her and I made her laugh quite often. I thought the perfect circumstance had to exist to ask her on a date, but that moment never materialized. I realize now that I was supposed to create that moment, some moment where I simply ask her to dinner or a movie. I missed out.
But I was not the only one waiting for perfection. She apparently was picky about who she dated or committed to. She never got married. She is now 54.
Striving for perfection, after procrastination, is the most destructive force in our lives, especially when it comes to an author pursuing a successful writing career. So if you want to launch that book and break through the clutter, stop seeking to be perfect.
Sometimes, good enough is indeed good enough. Other times we fail but need to
move forward. Always push and proceed. Inertia, doubt, delay, or inability to
make a decision and commit to a path will sabotage you. It is better to settle
for something decent than to keep up a Hamlet-like drama in everything that you
Look at the rest of your life. Have you ever held out for the perfect person, the ideal job, or the best house? Sure you did. You may have still made mistakes or failed to achieve fulfillment from your choices. Why? Because life isn’t perfect.
Does this mean we should not exercise some discriminatory judgment in what we do? No, of course we need to be selective, have standards, check things out, and trust our gut, but we can’t endlessly go on dismissing opportunities that are right in front of us.
So when it comes to writing your book:
· Dedicate time daily to write it. Set a deadline to finish it.
· Have someone edit it but don’t keep going back to re-write it over and over.
· Come up with a good title or subtitle, share it with others, allow for a window of time to change it, then move on.
· Design a great cover. Tweak it in a set period of time and then proclaim it is done.
· When it comes to finding a literary agent, don’t hold out for the biggest one. If you get someone interested, work with them.
· When your agent presents a deal, shop a little longer, and then take whatever is the best offer.
· If you can’t get an agent or a publisher, self-publish or hybrid publish, but don’t just park the manuscript on the shelf.
When it comes to marketing it:
* You won’t have the time, money, or skills to do everything, but don’t let that stop you from doing what you can.
* Just because you can’t do everything the way it ideally should be done, doesn’t mean you don’t do it. Make the best of a situation.
The old adage is true: “One in the hand is worth two in the bush.” Take the opportunity in front of you, for your book, and run with it. Don’t keep demanding or expecting perfection, because it may never arrive.
You can be your biggest asset — or barrier — to your success, in writing and in life. You don’t need to be perfect. Strive for imperfection and you may surprise yourself at the results.
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